I need some advice I thought I was over my crush who happened to be my friend. Then last night I had a dream that she happened to be in and now I cannot stop thinking about her. I really don't want to go chasing after this mirage of the love that'll never happen. The thing is I already spilled my heart to her and I got the I'm sorry response so idk anymore I have horrible judgement and I never know when to quit. Any advice to get over someone?
Well id say, what i usually do to move on is do things to better myself. Like i focus on me, rather than others. I do things that make ME happy. Like eat ice cream, or watch netflix, or maybe even write my feelings out in a journal. Maybe go running, workout, or any activity you like doing. Talking to someone helps or just writing it all does too, having all your emotions just on a piece of paper or having someone just listen to it all. It all just takes time, soon you’ll find yourself thinking about her less and more about everything else in life, like school, or work, or family, or anything else. Giving yourself time to just look back and reflect and look toward the future is good too. If shes not into you then you have to just realize theres someone else out there that will be into you and will make you happy and there’s just other fish in the sea. You just have to keep going forward with your life. Don’t go and hook up with a bunch of girls to get over someone because you’re gona look back and probably regret doing that, and also you’re going to ruin your reputation as a good guy.. Sooo in the moment it may be fun but once its all in that past you may look back at it with regret.